Hotel Bliss Guest Blog

Toronto Alley Catz

Last Saturday Night, a group of Toronto Bigirls went out for a night of dinner, dancing and debauchery.  We had met previously at the Bliss Brunch and some of the ladies had sparked up a few flames before the night even started.  Thanks to Hotel Bliss, we passed on emails to eachother in anticipation of our evening out.  What a great way to create sexual tension!

We met for dinner at a Jazz Club called AlleyCatz.  Situated in a cozy and dark corner of the lounge, we were able to flirt and fondle eachother unabashedly.  I was treated to a most delicious kissing session in the bathroom by one of our luscious ladies.  We giggled over our meals while exposing our breasts to each other and nuzzling naughtily!

After dinner, we headed downtown to Slacks, a lesbian bar in the gay district.  The party continued as we danced, flirted and teased eachother playfully.  From this point in the evening, I was whisked away by 2 of our gorgeous bigirls to a hotel room where we indulged in each others sexuality.  It was electric, erotic, exciting and enthralling…I am still pinching myself to wake up from this experience!  All I can say to all of you Bliss Warriors out there is that our Toronto Bigirls are bodacious, beautiful, brilliant and brazen.

I can’t wait for our next events coming up in August…the Back Alley Sexy Book Swap and Lunch and the Sensual Dinner at The Sultan’s Tent.

Please contact me for more details and stay tuned for our next racey report from Toronto!

Toronto Brunch Reflections (June 28, 2008)

10 brilliant and brave bi-women met in Toronto today for brunch.  There were no shy ladies in this gathering of open-mindedness.  Within a short span of 2 hours our conversations covered all things sexual.  What is it with straight friends? we wonder.  Why can’t we talk like this all the time?  Why are straight women so boxed in? we ask.  Having already established that we are bi-friendly, bi-curious, and bi-sexual just by showing up allowed us to open up the floodgates of our thoughts and feelings…

10 minutes into our brunch we were sharing body art, lifting up skirts and pulling off sleeves to gaze at eachothers tattoos.  Each adornment had a story to share, offering a window to look into eachothers memories.  What about childhood? we asked eachother.  It was plain to see that we were all highly sexual beings from the very start.  One woman shared a story about playing ‘Man and Lady’ when she was a youngster…she always wanted to be the lady, of course.  Masturbation was a most popular memory.  Stories about playing, in an era of innocence, long before we were made to feel that masturbating should be kept secret.

Then we shared our ‘Top Drawer’ stories.  Common, ladies, you know what the ‘Top Drawer’ is…….that special place where you stash your sex toys!  And how it all goes to waste just sitting there, when we all wish that we could play dress-up and have a play-date with another like-minded woman.  Mmmmmm.  

Suddenly, we discover that one of the ladies has a $150 gift certificate for ‘Seductions’, a sex shop on Yonge Street.  Woah!  We want to help her spend it…

The Brunch sadly ends, with hugs and kisses, and excitement for the upcoming Ladies Nite Out. 

But, wait!  A smaller group of us branches off and we head down to Seductions.  We want to spend that gift certificate on something very special, of course.  My fantasy suddenly becomes a reality.  One of our gorgeous ladies is trying on corsets, and I get to go in the changeroom with her and pull in her strings!  Another beautiful babe finds a great book on bisexual erotica for women.  One other luscious lady purchases a mini-vibrator, for keeping herself charged when she’s on the go!  I buy a sexy pair of black high heels, and a glass cock.  

This brunch went from hot, to hotter, to super-hot!  I can’t wait to meet these gorgeous babes again…

Thank you Bliss Warrior for starting something super sexy in Canada.  We adore you honey! 

More Poems by Water Lily

A sigh in the bed
A look in passing
Busy we live
Connected by love
A home in blossom
A boy in growth
Trips and events
Always things to do
Taking care of
Maintaining our bonds
Trusting that things
Will evolve and remain
Strong
Stable like pillars
Withstanding the forces of nature
Standing close beside
Always remaining
Yours

 __________________________

Sometimes when I’m floating along
bobbing gently in the sea
with the sun shining warmly on my face
feeling complete and serene
a wave of fear engulfs me
and I worry that I won’t find land
the salty water and angry sun
will burn and dry my aching bones
I search for my lifeline
Then I see you
pulling me in
hand over hand
A look of understanding
Cradling me back to reality

________________________

In the space
between you and I
are dreams and wishes
thoughts and questions
ebbing back and forth
rocking like the hull
of a beautiful old boat
that has traveled
all this time
before we knew each other
waiting to set sail
testing the water
towards an unknown journey
taking us safely across
the oceans in our hearts
to an island in our eyes
where all our aches and pains
are absolved in one glance
and so we go…
to this space

Poems by Water Lily

She walked alone keeping to herself

Always moving forward

No good-byes no tears

Avoidance became her method

Never having to explain why

Who would care to know

She could never express that which burned her heart

She smiled and danced around the truth

Recognizing others truths and blowing a whistle on everyone else

but herself

She did not believe it necessary

Who could love a ghost

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Without a map without a plan

No compass or emergency pack

Adeventures and people to explore and see

I’ll stay for a while I guess

Things could be worse I think

It’s not so bad in here

Better than it was in there

If you scare me I will jump

So high that I will fly

To a new location to start again

I know beginnings

I am an expert at making fresh starts

My existence thrives on leaving those behind

Scratching their heads not knowing what just hit them

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She doesn’t know how to fly

Or gather up her needs

She could fly into a window

Or land on a bug zapper

She wants to go back inside where it was warm and dark

Out here the expansion terrifies her mind

Too many traps lie waiting

Can she sit on your broad shoulders

Fly into those blue eyes

Just for a while to rest

Without losing her breath

She needs to rest

In a safe place

Warm and dark again

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What are they talking about

Sharing thoughts caring

So much chitter chatter

I can do this too but

Sometimes I’m not there

My mouth is moving

My eyes are alight

But I am floating up above

Watching everything from the clouds

My real thoughts are in the sky

Moving in circles, storms

I want my thoughts to rain down all over

And you and I can dance naked

In the showers of hope that live

Inside my wet wet heart