Hotel Bliss Guest Blog

SHALL WE PLAY A GAME RETURNS TO HOTEL BLISS!

Darling Hotel Bliss Guests,

Each day more and more girls are discovering and checking in to Hotel Bliss. To make it easier for you to meet girls and initiate friendships, we are bringing back the fun and wonderful Slumber Party Game to the Hotel.

How does the game work?

First, to qualify for participation in the game, you must email me the answer to ONE of the following questions by next Friday, November 21st. (Please email me within the hotel by CLICKING HERE) :

1. Describe a girl you have (or had) a crush on. What did you like about her? What qualities made her so attractive to you?
2. Describe a time a girl flirted with you. How did you know she was flirting? What did you do when you realized she might like you? (If this hasn’t happened, describe a time you flirted with a girl. What happened?)
3. Describe your dream night with a girl. Does she take you out for dinner? Do you cook for her? What happens after dessert? [This is a very powerful question... The more detailed you are the more likely this night will materialize.]

Second, each Monday I will post one of the answers I received and give you links to three girls’ pages at Hotel Bliss. You must guess who wrote the answer and give me your reason why you think she is the author. When I receive a correct answer, I will post another answer to a question…

There is no officially prize to win, although the game will introduce you to many new bi friends which may lead to some fabulous flirtatious fun. So join the party! E-mail me your answer by CLICKING HERE.

XOXOXOXOX
BLISS WARRIOR

No, you can’t watch!

I had just started dating someone, when I made a big mistake. I mentioned my ex girlfriend. You could see the wheels in his mind crashing to a grinding halt. I blushed in the silence and said, “I’m bi…..” Then I added, “But I don’t do threesomes!”

His answer, “Well then, what’s the point?”

I rarely get a negative response from a man for being openly bisexual. This response really struck me. It reminds me of another, more common response: “Can I watch?”

I don’t do threesomes, and no you can’t watch. And so, the appeal of my bisexuality is lost completely on most men.

Sometimes it’s hard being a bisexual woman. We are seen as promiscuous, attention-starved means for men to live out their fantasies of two girls at once. We are seen as dishonest and that we have it “easy” because we can “masquerade” as straight and don’t have people railing against a bisexual agenda. Yet let me tell you, when a man sees no point and no beauty in your bisexuality because it isn’t serving his own sexual needs, it can make you question the point of it all and whether bisexual women have it all that “easy”.

I’m bisexual, but that doesn’t mean I am incapable of devoting myself to one person.

I’m bisexual but that doesn’t mean I want my intimate moments with the man or woman I choose to love to be put on display for someone else.

If only he knew then how much his comment had hurt me. And how often I heard it echoed in the responses of other men.

That is part of the appeal of joining a website like Hotel Bliss. Instead of having your sexuality treated like a tool for other men, it is celebrated and enshrined for what it is by other women who have been made to feel as isolated and objectified as you, yourself, have felt at times. You are not alone and you are not an object. The beauty and openness you show by being bisexual is amazing. We need more ethical, honest, lovely bi-girls like yourselves in the world.

HOW TO CHANGE YOUR USER NAME

At anytime, you may change your user name to anything you want.

To change your name, first go to your Hotel Bliss control page.

Next to your profile picture, you will see Account Settings.

When you click on Account Settings, the first box you will see is Change Your Display Name. It looks like this:

Enter your new Display Name and then scroll down to the bottom of the page and click SAVE.

Your new Display Name should now work.

XOXOXOXOXOXO

BLISS WARRIOR

HOW TO ADD PICTURES TO YOUR HOTEL ROOM

At Hotel Bliss, bi-girls and bi-friendly girls get to know you by visiting your Hotel Room. By using the profile editor, you can add text and change the colors of your room. One thing that you may not know, is you can decorate your hotel room with pictures and this blog will show you how.

1. CREATE A FREE PHOTO HOSTING ACCOUNT ON FLICKR.COM

2. IF YOU DO NOT HAVE A YAHOO ADDRESS, CLICK ON THE LINK TO SIGN UP BELOW THE LOG IN BOX.

3. SIGN INTO FLICKR.COM AND THIS WINDOW WILL APPEAR.

4. CLICK ON UPLOAD YOUR FIRST PHOTO. NOW YOU CAN UPLOAD THE IMAGES YOU WANT TO DECORATE YOUR ROOM WITH.

5. ONCE YOUR PHOTOS ARE UPLOADED, CLICK ON THE IMAGE YOU WANT TO ADD TO YOUR ROOM. ABOVE THE IMAGE, YOU WILL SEE A LINK CALLED “ALL SIZES”. CLICK ON “ALL SIZES” TO SEE THE DIFFERENT SIZES YOUR IMAGE WILL BE ON YOUR PAGE.

6. PICK THE IMAGE SIZE YOU WANT. IN THIS EXAMPLE, WE PICKED THE MEDIUM SIZE.

7. UNDER THE IMAGE IT SAYS, COPY AND PASTE THIS HTML INTO YOUR WEBPAGE. COPY THE CODE AND GO BACK TO YOUR HOTEL BLISS PROFILE EDITOR.

8. IN YOUR PROFILE EDITOR, YOU CAN ADD IMAGES TO ANY OF THE PROFILE BOXES. JUST PAST THE HTML CODE FROM FLICKR.COM INTO THE BOX, LIKE THIS:

9. SAVE YOUR PROFILE AND THEN CLICK VIEW PROFILE. YOUR HOTEL ROOM WILL NOW HAVE PICTURES AND LOOK LIKE THIS:

REMEMBER: YOU CAN ADD AS MANY IMAGES TO YOUR ROOM AS YOU WANT.
ENJOY! BE CREATIVE! HAVE FUN!
IF YOU HAVE ANY OTHER DESIGN TIPS OR PROBLEMS, COMMENT BACK HERE.
XOXOXOXO
BLISS WARRIOR