Hotel Bliss Guest Blog

Get out and meet a Bi girl

Hi,

Just thought I’d post a blog letting everyone in on a cool secret you might not know about.
There is an awesome site www.meetup.com where people get together in your area for all kinds of things from book clubs to fans of 80’s music to lesbian’s with dogs group.
And it’s free.

I belong to an awesome group in my area, Dual Attractions: Bi ladies of the Triangle (NC) and we meet frequently for drinks, movies, dinner, Kareoke, etc…
It’s a great way to meet people in your area. If there isn’t a Bi ladies meetup group in your area, start one! It’s the best way to make a ton of friends who share the same interests.
Our group just celebrated it’s 6 month anniversary and there is something like 60 members now?

How cool is that?!
Shout out to Travel Girl, our fearless Dual Attractions leader & Bliss Hotel member. You rock!

So check it out! Go out and meet some bi friends!

Re: New to Bliss

and just wanted to say hello to everyone.  

I am so happy for Blisswarrior and to see this group is out here.  Hope to get to know some of you as well as blog some of my personal experiences.

All the best,

Tinuviel

The Impossible Crush

(I posted some of this as a bulletin but I’ve modified it and am posting it here because I think it’s more appropriately posted as a blog…)

Most of us have been there before: The Impossible Crush. 

I define this as having an intense desire for somebody that we simply cannot be with.  For whatever reason (and the reasons vary tremendously!) you know that anything more than friendship with her (or him) will never be.  The feelings that come along with the crush are thrilling and terrifying… and unbearably frustrating at times, too:

Your heart pounds hard and fast when you think of her/him or see her/him.

You feel tongue-tied when you’re with her/him (even though you are oh-so-clever and smooth in the imaginary encounter you have with your crush).

You generally have a one-track mind focused on anything about the object of your crush… you become distracted by thoughts of our crush at the most inconvenient times (Nothing like being unable to take your mind or eyes off of her/his sexy tanned, toned arms or gorgeous eyes or smile during a meeting/conversation that you should really be paying more attention to.  “I’m sorry, I missed what you just said there. I was too busy fantasizing/daydreaming/checking out your…”).

Perhaps your stomach even does flip-flops when you are around her/him.  Whenever this happens, I am reminded of the fact that some of the ancients did not consider the Heart to be the vessel of one’s emotions:  In fact, Hebrew literature uses imagery of the guts or bowels as the seat of our emotions.  When negative (or very powerfully positive!!) emotions bring you butterflies in your stomach, you begin to appreciate the apparent wisdom of our ancestors…

Now, some of us have been lucky enough to have a friend or two to confide in about the crush.  Others of us have had (at least at some points) to keep tight-lipped. Once again, just as the reasons why one cannot pursue or be with one’s crush vary tremendously, so do the reasons why one might not be able to confide in anyone about the crush.  The one reason that comes to mind most quickly is that if the crush is another female then one must have bi-friendly friends that they are comfortable talking to about such matters.  Another reason is that perhaps the crush object is a colleague or supervisor- and it’s just too risky to mention the crush to anyone in case word leaks out about it and puts your career in jeopardy.  Or perhaps we stay tight-lipped because we know that nothing will ever come of the Impossible Crush, so we don’t want to bother dragging anyone else into our frustrated little mindspace.

What is it about your crush that drives you so wild?  How does she/he make you feel about yourself?  How have you dealt with your Impossible Crushes?  Who have you confided in? 

What has helped get you past the heart-pounding, stomach-flipping stage to a point where you can just release the crush/desire and surrender to enjoying whatever presence they have in your life “as is”, not as you might otherwise want?  Have you ever actually pursued an Impossible Crush - if so, how did that turn out?

Seriers coming soon - Friends and Lovers

I want to have a series of “There are as many forms of love as there are moments in time.” Friends and lovers will be my soon to come series of the most special loves of my life current and past.

Does it sound interesting enough?

Vegas?

So my first venture to Vegas was pretty tame. Granted I went with the significant other but still. This time I’ve decided to venture out to the Fremont area. When I envision Vegas I think of all the lights. First time I went I stayed on the strip and was disappointed. I saw a lame show called Bite that consisted of topless vampires. Yes it was as bad as you are probably thinking. This time I really want a what happens in Vegas…type moment. I’m calling it Operation Sex Drugs and Rock n Roll just because I couldn’t come up with a better name. I am definitely going to Forty Deuce to see some good ol’ Burlesque. I’m a huge fan. That is my top priority. After that comes getting inebriated. I’m going roughly in October. I am open to recommendations and what stays in Vegas type stories. I’m talking fetish clubs, seedy underbelly type things. I want a memorable time. So any places you recommend are welcome!

AND THEN THERE WERE TWO - Chapter Four - The Taste of Tingles

This is the fourth chapter of a serialized true story of a girl, her man, and the female lover he introduced her to. Missed the first chapters in the story? AND THEN THERE WERE TWO: Chapter One, Chapter Two and Chapter Three.

I have a tendency to forget the endings of things…books, movies, TV shows. This is a strange inherited trait from my mother. On one level, I think it is a trick of the mind so that I can re-visit things time and again which I love or find moving and still experience an element of surprise. But also, I have learned that for as much as my analytical brain determines so much of my day to day existence that when I become involved with something driven by or experienced through the heart and body, it all resonates in a sensory realm. I can’t quote poetry or passages of a play or half the time remember the author of a favorite book not because of a lack of care, quite the opposite; because whatever it is has shifted my emotions around leaving an imprint on my heart.

The same is true with people. Certain specific details remain but after a meaningful exchange, I am left not with what travels through the concrete mind but rather the sensations and emotions carried, held close and dear within in my body. While my past experiences were varied and absolutely always from my heart, I knew I was entering into a different space. This romance, this exchange, this path, would continue beyond the immediate opportunity of the present evening. In spite of the true totality of love I felt for Louis in every dark and light cavern within my being…I had a life, even if small or brief, a life none-the-less to live with this woman.

For as much as Gemma and I were a sparking roller coaster of word-play and conversation when she joined Louis and I for dinner — or while sitting on the wicker bench of Marcus’ garden — or even with Marcus when he arrived home that night — as soon as the bedroom door closed behind me, words lost their place. There simply wasn’t room for them. Only the sounds of an old house settling in for the night, the wind tickling leaves outside, and the whisper of clothes slipping from our bodies floated around the room.

When I think of that first night with Gemma, it comes in flashes much like a succession of cut-aways in a film. When I stop for a moment, I can still smell her skin, taste the last of the red wine on her tongue, or feel the trail of tingles the entire length of my spine left by her fingers. My right cheek will still glow with the warmth from her inner thigh. The nape of my neck shivers at the flash of her palm slowly gliding along my back until her fingers playfully curled themselves around locks of my hair. Goosebumps prick my flesh with the memory my belly carries of Gemma’s eyelashes fluttering across my skin as she sprinkled kisses over my tummy…

Our rhythm moved us through the hours that night in true grace. Women are bold, unafraid, do not shy away from and seem to inherently understand the joy and thrill found in slowness. This is not to say that a fierce, quick taking of the body doesn’t have an important place within the scheme of things- of course it does. But, with her body, Gemma listened to mine and we took our time to understand that conversation, a conversation that grew more excited and intense with each new discovery, each new taste. Ours was not a goal motivated experience. The passion, the desire was deepened by the willingness to explore and sink below the waves in order to exist in the roaring quiet of how I, Violet, and she, Gemma, were waking up the other’s beating body.

Waterloo appeared before me and I climbed out of the car. Even though it was only 10am, I needed a nap and Louis, Louis, Louis… would be home from his business trip the next day, weakening my knees with a kiss of tingles all his own.

XOXO
V.
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August Brunch

I am the first to arrive as usual but this time I have sexy Susie to keep me company and get some tables together. Now as usual we had a ton of girls RSVP that they were attending and the norm is only half show up. We gathered together about four tables and 8 chairs in anticipation of my guestimate. I excuse myself from the table and grab some fruit and tea.

As I am waiting in line the two most sexiest women, whom I was lucky enough to spend some time with alone last night, come prancing in all dolled up so fantastic. Anna and Dee!!! Now let’s get this party started! They both are dressed to nines and let me tell you did they turn some heads that day!! Anna in her pink skirt and stripper shoes, Dee in the black slit skirt and off the shoulders top was enough to make any girl/guy hot!!!

Carly was the next to arrive and for the next 30 minutes it was just us four. Carly was talking about bringing a session to Albuquerque for women sexuality wich we all agreed would be a great idea and the conversation picked up from last night about female ejaculation. “The first time I ejaculated I though I peed!” That was my statement about it and come to find out almost every woman there thought the same thing. “Every man should be instructed on how to perform it!!”, “In fact I sent a thank you card to a lovers ex-girlfriend for teaching him the things he did.” said Dee.

Everyone one of us promptly agreed that there should be more instructional videos on the female ejaculation. Tell me have you ejaculated? Have you made a woman ejaculate?? Just would love to know……

Soon after we were joined by five other fabulous women and I actually was able to introduce them all to each other. (very proud because I am bad with names) I love the diversity in the women you meet at events like this. We had a couple of ladies brand new to Albuquerque and I think this was a great introduction to them both having moved from larger areas.

9 fabulous women showed to this brunch, the best turn out yet!! Conversations ranged from raising boys and how do single mothers deal with penis issues to wanting to plan a float in next years pride. A few of us were discussing attending a Dominatrix show later this month when Gina informs us, “The dress for the next show is duct tape.” “Duct tape?! You mean we make an outfit from duct tape!?!?” I was in shock to hear this in Albuquerque of all places. Being from the San Francisco bay area someone could say that and I wouldn’t flinch. There was a sense of glee that washed over me and thought to myself, how wonderful a place I have chosen in Albuquerque.

We then discussed the different colors and uses of duct tape and all the connections Gina has to costuming, including liquid latex. Ahhh latex!! One of my most favorite things to play with!! We soon learn that her connections could possible get us a large penis and vulva costume for pride next year on our float. We all agree what a great idea!!! And here begins the spawn of Albuquerquer’s Bliss Warriors float for next year! I am so excited!!! (anyone with thoughts and ideas to do this would be greatly appreciated!)

This blog is a short one because I just can’t properly represent how wonderful this month’s brunch went! Ladies thanked me for hosting and I informed them of Thursday’s Happy Hour open to all men and women. We huged and said our goodbyes.

If you would like I have posted a short, not very good quality video that you may view in my basement on Hotel Bliss. Special thanks to Bliss Warrior for creating the forefront of a bi-sexual movement. May you continue to inspire world-wide!! Much Love!!!

THE HOTEL BLISS BOUTIQUE IS OPEN!

Ladies,

The Bliss Warrior Team is proud to announce the grand opening of the Hotel Bliss Boutique.

Dedicated to supporting female artisans, the Boutique will be featuring handmade one-of-a-kind goods at exceptional prices. All sellers are members of Hotel Bliss, so if you have any questions about an item, feel free to contact them and ask them about their amazing work.

Some of the new items on sale now at the Hotel Bliss Boutique:

BY EVOKATEUR:

ONLY $18.00 PLUS SHIPPING! CLICK HERE TO READ MORE.

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DOUBLE ENDED GLASS DILDO BY SNARFF $150.00 PLUS SHIPPING
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And so much more, including hair accessories, adult toys, jewelry, massage, and handbags!

CLICK HERE TO SEE ALL OF THE NEWEST PRODUCTS AT THE BOUTIQUE.

CLICK HERE TO MEET THE ARTISTS - REMEMBER BUY AMERICAN, AND BUY BI!

Interested in selling your goods at the Hotel Bliss Boutique?
If you are already a member of Hotel Bliss, log -in and then CLICK HERE or visit the FAQ link in the home bar and click on How To Become a Seller. Once you are sure you qualify to be a seller, fill out the seller application by CLICKING HERE.

If you are not a member of Hotel Bliss, you must become one first to be a seller at the boutique. CLICK HERE to fill out the membership application.

SUPPORT YOUR BI SISTERS! BUY THERE HANDMADE PRODUCTS AT HOTEL BLISS. ALL YOU NEED IS A PAYPAL ACCOUNT.

XOXOXOXO
BLISS WARRIOR

Work and pleasure

Until about a month ago I was a proud member of the Lusty Lady - the only worker-owned, unionized sex business in the world. Yep, co-op, union and naked chicks. Only in San Francisco, folks! 

The Lusty is a peep show: customers come in, find a booth, plug in their money, the window goes up and what they do in there is their business. And they do everything. Yes, everything. I saw more dick in my first month there than I had seen in my entire sexual life and I haven’t exactly been unpopular. 

The work itself is almost boring: window goes up, girl bumps, grinds and shakes, window goes down. Next!  My co-workers are what made it fun. Over half the Lusty dancers are lesbians - the rest are bi. There were a handful of outlier straight girls, but the general consensus was that they just hadn’t met the right girl yet. 

One of the features of the Lusty is The Corner Booths. The corner booths are there for ADA compliance. The windows are larger and the booths are big enough to accommodate a wheelchair. However, no one could ever remember seeing a wheelchair-using patron - what the corner booths were mostly used for was S.E.X. 

The window would go up and we would suddenly find ourselves treated to a live sex act. Woohoo! A fair number of couples would use the booth for a quickie. In, out, back on the street in under 10 minutes. My favorites would linger, they were having a threesome with me as the non-touching third. Yeah, baby.

One couple in their mid-forties came in on one of my last nights. They started slow, I think it was his idea to be there. She was shy and looking down. I finally managed to catch her eye and she instantly softened. Her partner pulled her to her feet and moved behind her so there was nothing between us but a plane of glass.  

As they fucked, her eyes didn’t leave me the whole time. I think her partner forgot I was there, but neither of us cared. They stayed until they both got off, her eyes roaming my body while I moved in front of their window. 

I have no idea if she was bi to begin with, I hope that night started her down a path of self-discovery. At any rate, it made my job a lot more fun that night.

First blog

I’m going to post something innocent and friendly until I figure out just where this will appear. I have a lot of Hotel Bliss-specific stuff to write, but I need to get comfortable with the medium.