Bi-Freedom Re-cap
Written by lacivia on July 9, 2008 – 1:15 pm -Brunch
It’s a beautiful July 5th in Albuquerque and the first to arrive is the always glowing so bright, Anna. She just lights up any room she walks into!! Breathtakin as always, and no matter how often I see her I am always excited!! She was shortly follwed by two other amazing beautifull bi-girls, Gina and Denise.
Our conversation begins surprisingly by discussing how Denise’s relationship is going with her man. She had recently had some jealousy issues come up in their open relationship. This lead to open conversation of all of our green monsters that come out with those whom have different “arrangements” than other couples. All four of us at this table are in a relationship with a man and have so much in commong with our trials and tribulations! How wonderful to know you are not alone!!
Discussions move on to talk about wild parties, one night stand and modeling. All of our ears peark up when Gina is discussing meeting a photographer at her friends dominatrix show. “Dominatrix show, here, in Albuquerque?!?! Where?! When?!?”, the three of us say almost in unison. “Give me details!”, I said and we all giggled. Oh, how wonderful it is to find that sisterhood with Bliss Warriors!! (Thank you Bliss!) Listening to Gina describe the scene we all discuss our “alter” egos and talk about Denise’s alter ego, Sacha.
After finishing our titilating conversation about doms and subs Gina says, “Maybe it would be okay to discuss with you something that has happened recently?”. And of course after all the lovely conversation how could you not be comfortable sharing something intimate? Gina did indeed share a very intimate moment with her man that she wanted our opinion on. And who could help but be so happy for the moment she trusted to share with us?!
Our 3 hour long brunch ends with what we are wearing to dancing tonight. Denise unfortunately can’t attend but the 3 blonde bombshells have decided to all wear corsets! Watch out ladies!!
Dancing at Exhale
Anna and I are the first ones to arrive. Anna looks amazing in her corset and jeans and I in a corset and capri’s. The looks we receive right away are a tell all to just how hot we look tonight!! We grab some drinks take a couple of pictures and wait. And wait. Just as we think no one else is going to arrive this HOT HOT HOT brunette in a pink corset waves at us. I turn to Anna and ask, “Who is that?!”. “OH MY GOD, IT”S GINA!!!”. Not only had Gina worn a pretty pale pink corset, hot black skirt but a hot black wig to boot!! Anna and I could not get over how amazing she looked! I said to Gina, “I already had a crush on you, but now?! My heart’s all a flutter!!” She graciously thanks our praise and we all hug and kiss.
While Gina goes to get herself a drink we are joined by a very lovely, retro lesbian woman Anna had complimented earlier. While Anna and Coleen are deep in an intense conversation Gina and I exuse ourselves to go dance. Now take two sexy women, in sexy corsets, dancing VERY sexy in any straight club, what would you get? A lot of dirty looks from women. But here at Exhale, one of the local Gay clubs, it was quite the opposite.
I noticed the looks we get from the women in the club are not hateful, jealous or mean. They just smile and nod. What an amazing experience for me at least. I have always been trashed talked to by the way I dance. I have been called, horror, slut and everything in between because of how I dance. Music moves me in a very deep sensual way. Can you blame me for expressing from my body? For the first time ever instead of being intimidated by the crowd I was LIBERATED!! The sweat began to poor from our bodies and we needed our drinks and break. We go back to the table and join Anna and Coleen.
At this point I excuse myself to use the ladies room, get in line and there are others in line behind me. I find something new comming from inside me…..fearless to stike conversation!! The two ladies behind me are absolutely beautifull and I let them know it!! As we strike up conversation I inform them I am a Bliss Warrior and tell them all about us. Amy respons with, “Are you kidding me?! You are Bi?! I have been dying to meet others like me!!?” Just as she makes this statement this very hot latina woman walks up to me and says, “NMbirl?? I’m muay muay!”" We hug kiss, all use the ladies room and all go back to our table.
As soon as we can get introductions out we finish our drinks and 7 hot women hit the dance floor again!! 7 quickly became 5 as Anna and Coleen wanted more discussion time. But the remaining 5 got freaky on the floor and had a blast!! We all danced, drank and talked so long that the next thing you knew we were closing down the house and being asked to leave.
Such fond memories were created that night with some true Bliss Warriors. My favorite for me, besides seeing Gina, was the cute gay boy’s telling me I was the hottested girl in the club! Ahhh, they really know how to touch a girls heart!
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Dearest Lacivia -
What joy your post is to read! Because of your magnetic leadership, you New Mexico bi-girls are changing Albuquerque!
This post was beautifully written, and truly, truly, turned me on. Oooohhh… I wished I could be out there dancing with you all.
Thank you for your dedicated work to bring Bliss Warriors together. You amaze me and you are not only bringing joy into your life, you are doing the same for so many others.
Love the post! May I repost it on BW?
XOXOXOXOXO
BLISS
Miss amazing Bliss, thank you for your inspirational words! It means a great deal to me. Please pass it on as you see fit by all means!
xoxox
Lacivia
I am so bummed I had to miss it again! I wish you guys weren’t so far away from me!
We were very sad you could not make it. However, you need to find a way to do it soon, Dirty Gurrl will be leaving the state and I have no room to offer you.
I LOVE IT! What a wonderful happy time we had! And I’m looking forward to August’s bash!