Getting Dressed Up for Myself
Written by evokateur on May 15, 2008 – 9:28 pm -It’s a quiet afternoon and no one is in the house. I fidget in my computer chair because all of a sudden I am in the mood to pleasure myself. I strip myself down and stalk into my closet to find something to wear for myself. I pick my clothes more carefully than when I go on dates. I have worn my lingerie more for myself than anyone else.
I’ve selected a corset and I am pulling on thigh high stockings when I begin debating wearing underwear or not, and my body gives a little shiver. Just the preparation for myself is foreplay. When I am done, I look at myself in the mirror. Finding women attractive, I can appreciate being sexy and looking at something I find sexy…
I begin to fantasize as I watch myself. I am running my hands over myself, enjoying the feeling and thinking of both doing it and having it done to me. I pull each piece of clothing off in a slow, deliberate way that no one else can quite manage in terms of anticipation and sensuality.
There are times in which this is enough, just the way I undress myself is enough to send me over the edge but it always leaves me wanting more and maybe a half hour later I will be pleasuring myself again.
If you’ve ever dressed up just for the hell of it, then you might know what I mean. Dressing up for yourself is sometimes the perfect complement to self-pleasure. You do it for your lovers, but you are also your own lover.
Sometimes, we become too focused on pleasing our partners and masturbation is seen as a second-best alternative to the emotional and physical intimacy you have with your partner. Yet masturbation is important in its own right. Wooing yourself is important to a healthy self-image. Dress up for yourself.
How gratifying is it, to look in the mirror and realize how sexy you are? To get pleasure from realizing what a goddess you are?
It is vital to know the path to pleasure, to traverse it often alone and enjoy the discovery of all that is sensual and unique about yourself.
Tags: masturbation, self-love
Posted in SEX, TRUE STORY |
What a delightful shock to read this!!! Of course, being bisexual, and into lingerie and heels, when I was younger I found my own body dressed up erotic. But I always thought it was… narcissistic or something. How affirming to find out that I am not alone in this now not-so-guilty pleasure
Sometimes it’s hard to remember that you should treat yourself the way you’d like others to treat yourself. A woman who sees herself with a positive self-image is far more alluring.