Some advice please
Written by bookstorewhore on October 29, 2008 – 10:00 pm -So, I’m really new to this…
I think I may have developed my first crush on a girl. Of course I have found girls attractive before, but I’ve never had any “butterflies-in-my-stomach” feelings for a girl.
I started a new job not too long ago, and that’s when I started seeing her. She works nearby, so I see her almost everyday. I don’t know much about her…only her name, and that she has a nice smile and pretty voice. I don’t even know if she’s gay or bisexual. And, even if she was, I don’t know if she’s single…or if she would even be interested in me.
I guess what I would like to know is, how do I go about finding out whether or not a girl is into other girls? I don’t want to assume that just because the way someone is dressed that means they’re gay or straight. And I don’t know if there is a way to find out without just asking it.
Any suggestions/advice would be greatly appreciated.
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Brave new world
Written by voruccasalt on October 18, 2008 – 12:32 pm -I am moving forward in a new direction. Was there a moment when a light bulb lit above my head as a sudden realization? Was it a slow awakening, blurry eyed at first with increasing clarity? I cannot tell you. I just know that here I am. Seeing with new eyes. Feeling with new skin. Hearing with sensitive ears. This new world is awkward and scary, exhilarating and intense. The old me did not feel her feelings, did not acknowledge her own dreams and wore many masks. Being the real me. It is harder. It is better. Perhaps it will get easier with practice.
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