Hotel Bliss Guest Blog

A First Time - The Final Account

As I have mentioned in the previous post this was a night of many firsts. At this time I would like to go into details of those firsts…..

After Denise and I recovered from our wonderful orgasms, Rich had poured us each a new glass of wine. I have to admit for a first time with a woman whose man was there I continued to forget he really was. He was very much up unto this point a spectator. You could see he very much loved being in that position too. No angst for no real participation at this point. Even the moments to come he was more of an assistant and I truly got to enjoy so many wonderful new things.

The three of us proceeded into the bedroom and Denise asked, “Do you trust us?”. At this point I was so excited and satisfied I would trust anyone to do anything, and I did. Denise and Rich kissed and touched me as they laid me down on the bed. Denise grabbed a scarf and blindfolded me. This act in itself was so excititng and a bit scary that new sensations tingled all of my senses. Rich took each arm and leg and placed them into handcuffs that were already attached to the bed. Here I was completly vunerable to two people with absolutely no control. Instanly I could feel myself open up to this new sensation and I left a puddle between my legs.

Having kisses and hands all over me without seeing was suck an intense electric stimulous but nothing compared to the surprises that awaited me. The next thing I felt was a dildo being slid into my vagina. Slowly filling all of me I moan like I have never heard myself before. I swear the neighbors could hear! I can now feel Denise climb ontop of me and feel her body slowly push down towards mine. “Oh my god!? What is that?!”, I scream. Rich was the only one to respond, “A double headed dildo.” I have only seen such things in stores and now to feel what it does for women, have mercy!!

When Denise fully thrust towards me it opened our labias. When they touched our clits suction cupped together. I can’t even describe the exctasy that invaded my entire being while this woman bounced and grinded my groin inside and out. I began to have the most intense continuos orgasms of my life. Yes, multiple orgasms!! I didn’t believe they could exist for me, and here I was bucking and screamin on a constant level for more than just a mere second, or minute but what seemed like eternity.

After Denise and I had cum several times together I suddenly feel the dildo being removed from our bodies. I thought I was going to be released from my restraints but to my surprise there was more! Something was being attached to my clit! It was such a paculiar feeling. Then Denise started grinding me again and I realized our clits are attached to each other. I ask again, “What is that?”. Rich responds, “it’s a clit clip, just enjoy my dear.” A clit clip? I had never even heard of such a thing and was thrilled by yet ANOTHER new sensation and toy!

The night continued to the wee hours of the morning. It was more and more sessions of Rich assisting Denise and I enjoying each other. His direction of the two of us was the most sincere, kind and thoughtful participation of a man I had ever seen. Even to this day. It wasn’t even until after we had all slept that I was approached by Ricn for interaction with him, which Denise directly so lovingly. These firsts have been and probably will always remain the closest to my heart. Much more than losing my virginity. I have yet to even be with a woman again that would use a double header or clit clip with me again and it’s been 24 years of experience since then.

The time living with Denise and Rich ended soon after our first time togehter. Denise had a girlfriend Jeanie who would come and play with us during the day when Rich was at work. (yes a first time of all women three some, whew! that’s a whole nother blog) Rich became very jealous that he wasn’t participating in those events and I was asked to leave. It was a sad note that our relationship ended, but I still walked away with one of the most amazing experiences in my life.

It has been such a wonderful walk down memory lane sharing this story with you all. I hope you have enjoyed it!! XOXOXO

Beadwork

If you have the time please take a look at the new pictures in my penthouse.  They are the beadwork that my husband and I do.  If we get enough positive feedback we’ll sell them through the boutique.  All items can be made in your choice of colors and are custom made to fit you. The Parisian is made with a jump ring so you can swap out charms to fit your outfit/mood.  We can also do bracelets and earrings to match.

Natural Beauty: The first installment - Guaranteed to be the funnest!

Well, my first natural beauty suggestion isn’t necessarily about beauty. At least, not on the outside. But since I discovered this little trick awhile back, I’ve been dying to tell people about it. Some of you may already know the benefits, but everyone else, get ready for a treat!

What’s got me all excited? Well it’s the beauty of coconut oil. But not just for its uses on the skin and hair (though there will definitely be more posts about that in the future). It’s about what a fantastic natural lube it makes!

I was surfing the net one day, looking for information to back up my belief that coconut oil is one of the healthier oils you can use for cooking, when I came across a blog talking about using it as a lube. I hadn’t really thought about that one, but the idea intrigued me, so I started doing some research. I’ve been looking to replace as many of my personal products as I can with natural alternatives, and you can’t get more natural than that!

After lots of reading, I decided to give it a shot. One night I blindfolded my man, smoothed some on my hands and started ‘working him’. He instantly knew it wasn’t our normal water based lube, and he definitely liked the difference. After playing with him for awhile I went up to kiss him. He was pleasantly surprised! (Well, he was already happy by that point!) We both love coconut, so the taste was an added bonus. After that first time, we haven’t gone back to our regular lube. The coconut oil is just too much fun!

If you’d like to give it a try, here are some pros and cons to consider:

Pros

1. It smells tastes like coconut! That is if you buy the right kind. You’ll want to buy a quality coconut oil. A good coconut oil will smell like fresh coconut. Avoid any that is RBD (refined, bleached, deodorized). Look for coconut oil that is extra virgin. Organic is best. This also applies to using coconut oil cosmetically – but that will be in another blog.
   
2. 100% edible. This makes it really fun to work with. I’ve found that the edible, store bought lubes taste weird, and I just never really trusted putting that stuff in my mouth. Also, if you are of the variety that is hindered by the smell or taste of oral, this can be of a real benefit for you!
3. Moisturizing. My man tends to be frisky in the morning. The problem is I tend get dry over night, both my mouth and my intimate parts. Using lube was our best option, but as I said, we don’t care for edibles, so it limited our options. That’s not a problem any more. And if I’m using my mouth my lips get super soft!
4. Good for him and her. My man and I have both used it on the other, and oh my we both love it so! We’re also very excited to someday use it on someone else *blush*

Cons

1. It tastes and smells like coconut oil. If you don’t like coconuts, well then this won’t be for you. Although you could try the RBD kind. The bleaching and processing takes the taste and odor out of the oil, but it also makes it less natural. I have not tried this kind (the smell and taste are the best part for us), but have read of others using it and enjoying it. I wouldn’t recommend it for cosmetic use, and definitely not for cooking. The more it’s processed, the less healthy it becomes.
2. Not for use with latex condoms. Oils are bad with latex. It is however completely safe with polyurethane condoms. I know that Trojan and Durex both make poly condoms.
3. Some clean up required. Me and my man use it liberally, so a shower is usually necessary afterward. This isn’t the stuff you would want to use during a quickie before you need to be somewhere.
4. It is an oil. I know that some women are wary of oil based lubricants. They say that oils leave a coating on the vaginal wall that is difficult to get rid of thus increasing the chance of bacteria and other infections. At the end of the day, you should make the choice best for you. We have been using coconut oil everywhere, and I mean everywhere, and haven’t had any issues yet. If you are worried, you can still use it safely for external fun. Great for massages!

Working with coconut oil

Coconut oil is solid until around 76 degrees. If your house is cooler than that, you’ll notice it has more the consistency of butter. It melts quickly when rubbed in your hands, so you could scoop some and start an intimate massage on the body part of your choosing. We put some in squeeze bottle and if it’s become too solid, we pop it in the microwave for a few seconds. (Don’t get it too hot! Ouch!)

As I said before, it can get messy (but fun messy!). Being an oil, it has the chance to leave oil stains on sheets and bedding. As of yet, we haven’t noticed any, but if you’re worried about that, perhaps put down a blanket that you don’t care about.

Where to find coconut oil

I’m a frequent shopper at the natural food store down the street from me, and they usually have no less than four brands of good quality coconut oil. I haven’t really looked in a regular grocery store, but if you find any, as I said before, make sure it’s extra virgin and (if possible) organic.

That’s it for my first installment. I hope you enjoy this one as much as we do (and we really, really do). Please share any thoughts or stories if you’ve already tried it!

Natural Beauty

Looks like the blog is working swimmingly. (Thank you Christian and Bliss!)

Enough lovely ladies said they would be interested in hearing about some of my natural beauty alternatives that I’m going to give it a go! Before my first post, though, I’d just like to put some things out there.

First of all, I am by know means an expert. While I’ve spent a lot of time researching and trying many of the things I’ll discuss, a lot of it is a topic of debate even among the scientists. I do promise to offer as much knowledge as I can on each topic, but please do continue to research further.

Second, I completely welcome thoughts, insights, suggestions, alternatives, even downright disagreements are okay in my book. If you’ve got something to offer, please share! I just ask that everyone be respectful (but from what I’ve read from beauties here so far, I don’t think that will be an issue).

Finally, everyone is different. What may work wonders for me, may not work for you. Even worse, you may react adversely, even if the products are natural. (For example I learned the hardway that burdock root makes me immensely itchy!). So, always proceed with caution. Do test spots if applicable. And of course, if you have a known allergy to any of the ingredients, don’t use it. (But if you do, let me know and I can possibly offer alternatives).

Okay ladies! I’ll work at getting the first post up in the next day or two. I’m very excited to share what I’ve learned and open up some discussion!

THE NEW AND IMPROVED HOTEL BLISS BLOG EDITOR

Darling Bliss Girls,

Christian our brilliant programmer finally found the bug that was disrupting our new blog editor and it is FIXED!

We still recommend that if you are writing a long, detailed blog to make sure to save it to Word or another program and copy and paste it into the editor, just in case. Plus, to protect your privacy, Hotel Bliss does log you out automatically if you have not “used” the site. So protect your work and always save it so you do not lose any of your creative inspirations.

I ALSO HIGHLY, HIGHLY RECOMMEND HITTING THE SAVE BUTTON BEFORE YOU HIT PUBLISH. FOR SOME REASON, IT WILL BE SAVED, YOU CAN STILL EDIT IT IF YOU WANT, AND YOU WILL KNOW IT HAS BEEN SAVED ON THE HOTEL BLISS SERVER.

Just so you know, here are some key functions below to make your blog look nicer:

If you want to BOLD your type, just click the B and type, or highlight what you would like to bold, then click the B. Click it again to turn it off.

If you want to ITALICIZE your type, just click the I and type, or highlight what you would like to italicize and click the I. Click it again to turn it off.

If you want to UNDERLINE your type, just click the U and type, or highlight what you would like to italicize and click the U. Click it again to turn it off.

If you want to STRIKE-THROUGH your type, just click the ABC and type, or highlight what you would like to italicize and click the ABC. Click it again to turn it off.

Those lines next to the ABC allow you to choose left, center, right or justify alignment for your paragraphs.

Below the I is the bulletin button to make a list

• look
• like
• this

Want to make a numerical list? Click on the 1,2,3 button and it will make a list

1. that
2. looks
3. like this.

To add a picture, click on the little tree picture. Make sure to have a photo URL to add. Don’t know how to get a photo URL? CLICK HERE and read my blog “HOW TO ADD PICTURES TO YOUR HOTEL ROOM”. The process for getting a free photo hosting account is there.

Want to add a link? First type what you want to become a link. (I often type “CLICK HERE” before I add the link, but you can type whatever you want to become a link.) Highlight the words and you will notice the little chain icon becomes active. Click on the chain and insert the URL address you want that link to connect to. Click on the broken link to disable the link.

There are more things you can do, but that is a basic overview.

Hope to read many more blog posts now that it is working!

XOXOXOXOXO

BLISS WARRIOR

The Reminder: Fabulous Female Fertility

I hesitate to post this as my “initial” blog at Hotel Bliss…. it’s not a fancy, “sexy” post. In fact, it might be a huge turn off for some of you. Sorry ’bout that.
But I’ve been learning more about this topic recently and would genuinely like to hear from other women about their beliefs, practices, and experiences/stories in this area. Perhaps even get some dialogue going… I look forward to your responses, kind readers.

We live in a time when numerous options are available to women that give us some control of not only our fertility but also the monthly reminder of our fertility.

Yes, the majority of us fabulous females menstruate on a semi-regular basis between menarche and menopause. Some don’t like to think about this fact. Some of us may consider it every now and then (ever wondered how many women with you on the subway, at work or at the club/concert/beach are on their period, too…?). There are also some women liberated and bold enough to celebrate menstruation; the cynic in me strongly suspects that these women aren’t writhing in discomfort and nausea for several days of the month… but, hey, power to these feisty godesses nonetheless.

Although I’m not at the point of being able to celebrate menstruation, I tolerate it because it alludes to the procreative potential within me (woot!!). Other things that make it more bearable are modern medicine (Oh how I adore you, my darling, darling Anaprox), the Kundalini Vinyasa Yoga Sun Salutation and my trusty heating pad. But I digress…

Mainstream media would have us believe that disposable pads and tampons are virtually our only options. But I am learning that this is not the whole story! So, what other options exist? What are women actually using? Why don’t we hear about these alternative options???

I have come up with a few considerations that may be important when choosing how to deal with/manage menstruation:
- Cost (both environmental and economic)
- Convenience (am I going to be able to use this in public restrooms? will I have to get my hands dirty or spend time washing/disinfecting it?)
- Comfort (does it feel like a bulky diaper? will it leak? )
- Concerns for health (does it involve chemicals or hormones?)

Do you have others that you would add to the list?

I am posting here at Hotel Bliss because I have come across intelligent, open-minded, well-read women… whom I suspect may be willing to share their advice/opinions about various “tools of the trade” such as:
- pads/pantyliners (regular type? organic? reusable?),
- tampons (plastic vs cardboard applicators… or applicator-free? Bleached vs natural?),
- keepers/cups, (brands? where to buy them/sources?)
- hormonal options to lessen/stop menstrual flow (ie depo-provera, etc),
- pain management (ie medication, heating pads, food, herbs, or physical activity)?
- others???

Lovely ladies, do you have anything to recommend trying or avoiding? Do you have tips or experiences re: non-mainstream options?
I want to hear from you and I hope we can all learn from each other!

magically delicious

mmmmm.

pussy.

Needing the perspective of other Outrageous Women

Well, since this is my first post here and most of you don’t know me very well, I’m going to tell you some background information before I ask my question.

I was married not long after college to a man named Glen. It lasted for 9 years, produced two amazing boys, and then ended horribly.  For the first year after the divorce, I was pretty bitter about the whole thing. And it didn’t help that he was under the mistaken notion that I would still cater to his every whim.  But we eventually ironed things out.  I grew a backbone and started standing up to him and he earned a new respect for me.

At this point, we are getting along great. He’s communicative about his plans when it affects me, and we are working pretty great as a team in raising our boys.  I’ve even had some great phone conversations with his fiance (who is also my son’s godmother, which is a whole other story).

I’m invited to the wedding. And I’ve said that I’ll go. I think it’s important for my sons to see that there is no bad blood there. That they don’t have to feel like they have to choose between me and their new stepmom.  That this just means they have one more person they can count on who loves them wholeheartedly.  

My guy is still deployed to Africa, so I’ll be going to the wedding alone.  Which kinda sucks. But I’ll go, and I’ll look fabulous and smile brightly.  What I want to know is. . .just how petty is it that I want to go to that wedding and outshine the bride? And the groom, for that matter.  I want to steal the show.  Which is why I will leave early.  Cause I know it would be bitchy to steal their thunder on this special day.  I know it really doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks of me. I am quite positive that I’m the very best Me in the whole world.  But it’s just so very important to me that I not look pathetic there alone at his wedding. 

Thanks for listening
Dirty Gurrrl

Oh! And if anyone can tell me the etiquette of wedding attire I’d be grateful. Can I wear black if it’s not ALL black? What about white? And I’m just making an educated guess, but see-through tops are off limits, right? hehehe

Getting Dressed Up for Myself

It’s a quiet afternoon and no one is in the house. I fidget in my computer chair because all of a sudden I am in the mood to pleasure myself. I strip myself down and stalk into my closet to find something to wear for myself. I pick my clothes more carefully than when I go on dates. I have worn my lingerie more for myself than anyone else.

I’ve selected a corset and I am pulling on thigh high stockings when I begin debating wearing underwear or not, and my body gives a little shiver. Just the preparation for myself is foreplay. When I am done, I look at myself in the mirror. Finding women attractive, I can appreciate being sexy and looking at something I find sexy…

I begin to fantasize as I watch myself. I am running my hands over myself, enjoying the feeling and thinking of both doing it and having it done to me. I pull each piece of clothing off in a slow, deliberate way that no one else can quite manage in terms of anticipation and sensuality.

There are times in which this is enough, just the way I undress myself is enough to send me over the edge but it always leaves me wanting more and maybe a half hour later I will be pleasuring myself again.

If you’ve ever dressed up just for the hell of it, then you might know what I mean. Dressing up for yourself is sometimes the perfect complement to self-pleasure. You do it for your lovers, but you are also your own lover.

Sometimes, we become too focused on pleasing our partners and masturbation is seen as a second-best alternative to the emotional and physical intimacy you have with your partner. Yet masturbation is important in its own right. Wooing yourself is important to a healthy self-image. Dress up for yourself.

How gratifying is it, to look in the mirror and realize how sexy you are? To get pleasure from realizing what a goddess you are?

It is vital to know the path to pleasure, to traverse it often alone and enjoy the discovery of all that is sensual and unique about yourself.

CRUSHING ON THE TAKEN GIRL - A BABY BI-GIRL SHARES HER STORY

Tall shoes, short dress, long hair, polished, and glossy.

Fresh from head to toe? No!

It can’t be the same girl with what seemed to be day old dirt

crammed under her nails and outling her cuticles.

Her legs are shaved?! I assumed wrong.

Her hair is so shiny. So unlike the dull dirty brown I saw matted to the sweat on her face.

As cute as she was there dirty with a pick in her hand, I brushed her off as not my type.

Tonight she smelled like the tropical flowers in her garden.

Not like how she smelled while planting those tropical flowers.

Thinking back, how could I have mistaken that sweaty scent for anything less than pure sex?

How could I have missed her natural radiant beauty?

Was I blinded by the sun as I stood so close to the equator?

Does she carry the equator with her between her legs?

She looks like poetry and speaks in stanzas with no rhyme.

Or at least that is how I read her.

I watched her as she walked around her new yard

with an expression on her face like she lost something

when she sees me, her expression changes, relaxes

She says ‘Hi’ to me in a relieved tone of voice.

“There you are”, I say, “I was looking for you.”

She smiles and turns her head slightly

as she slips her hair behind her ear.

A silence passed while we held eye contact.

“I forgot what I wanted,” I said

She gave me a shy smile as her cheeks blushed.

He came up from behind, wrapped his arms around her waist, and kissed her blushed cheek.

She introduced him to me with apologetic eyes.

I shook his hand and studied his face.

I looked at him then at her then back at him.

Trying hard to reserve judgement,

I wondered if those apologetic eyes were for me or for herself.

The girl disappeared for minute to pace around her new yard,

again like she lost something.

The boy and I sat to get to know each other on their porch

I was skeptical, hyper aware of his personal hygiene,

but holding out hope for great redeeming qualities

There had to be something special about this guy.

He had her.

I can say now that she is the special thing about the guy.

And that is about it.

When she comes to my house, she lingers.

I want her to stay and she stays.

Her eyes remind me of Venus.

I wish she didn’t have to go home.

Somewhere inside her, she wishes she didn’t have to either.

Why do women settle? I realize that I do not know the details of my girlfriend’s relationship with her man, but I can feel her sadness. I can see that the spark is there and then it isn’t when he comes around. It makes me want to hold her. I want her to see her own beauty. I want her to be appreciated. Ultimately it is none of my business so I keep my distance.

On the special occasions where we get to sit down and have girl talk over glasses of red wine and loaded bowls, I make sure she knows I’m here for her if she needs a friend. My hand is out to her and she can hold it whenever she wants.

XOXOOXOX

Jungle Jane